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One Month Of Comment Luv –

One Month Of Blessings

And A Big “Thank You!” To All!

This has been an interesting month: a blogging challenge month. And while I may relate more of the benefits in another post, I felt the more “personal side” of the challenge by going back and reading a number of the comments posted on my blog over the last 30 days.

My plan here is simple, although not without a small amount of apprehension on my part. Why? Because in this post I plan to:

• Share a number of the comments posted on my blog.
• And make my own comments about the comments at the end.

“Well, Lee, that’s simple. So why the anxiety?”

Answer: because I can’t quote everyone! You see, I truly mean it when I say that I appreciate the folks that have taking the time to drop by, read, and make thoughtful comments about what I have posted. For me, reading over the comments has been:

• Encouraging.
• Insightful.
• And meaningful.

Comment Luv And Comments About The Luv

I think what I will do is simply to share several posts with you and then make my comments afterword. Now, if you are a blogger and working through the whole idea of blogging for prospects and blogging as a part of “reflecting the real you” (branding yourself), then what I would do as you read down through this list would be to:

• Get out a notebook, pad of paper or create a document.
• Get into a “learn and grab” the ideas mode. And, I would suggest to aspects of this: (1) record the obvious ideas; and (2) record the ideas that touch your heart.
• Visit some of the days during the month of August — not so much to read my articles but to catch the quality comments that I have been fortunate enough to find left on this blog… and continue the process of idea gathering and listening to your heart.

Okay, Here We Go!

• Note: the links are those given by the posters at the time of their comments
• Any italics added are mine. Just highlighting various things that stand out. I may take one or two examples in another post of mine and “tear them apart” in terms of sharing with you what lessons I learned through reading them.

From Faith Barnard…

“Hello Lee,

This is a very extensive list of questions to pose to ourselves to truly reflect on our lives and the direction we choose for our lives.

What came through was balance and priorities. Through evaluating every aspect of our lives we can see our journey from a wider perspective.

Stepping back if you will and taking in our choices and our priorities. Giving us an important perspective to examine if there are areas that can be expanded and adjusted to mirror our hearts desires.

Thank you for this thought provoking post. What an amazing journey we are on. I look forward to your future posts as well.

Faith”

From Natasha Nassar

“Wow! Great post Lee! I love the part where you said:

“Can you influence someone by simply “letting it go” and building the relationship that way?”

That was the exact advice that I needed to hear- funny how it works that way, isn’t it?

Looking forward to reading more from you!

Natasha”

From Alicia

“I found this so helpful. Wish I had read it when I had my last business because as it grew to a full time job I found I was spending less and less time with my family. I let the love of my business define my self worth instead of my family. It was a learning experience and one I don’t want to happen again. I know better now.”

From Karen Wilson Wehrle

“My husband has a legally-blind aunt who’s almost 90. She’s such a sweetheart her family cast her out and she lived in a nearby state for most of her life. She outlived all her enemies and returned to her hometown five years ago.

What happened? She brought the remaining family together! She sees the good in everything and everyone. That’s such a powerful attraction that no one can resist her. We meet other family members as we visit with her, and we’re getting to know each other. What a gift she is to us all!

I just had to share that. And of course, I’m emulating her!”

From Mari-Lyn

“Thank you for the simple suggestions and reminder for us serial entrepreneurs, like me. I tweeted it out for you. It’s so important that I keep intouch with my personal as well as my business relationships.”

From Kelly Baadner

“Lee,
The only thing I want to say here is “PREACH IT!!!”.
I hope you “feel” my passinoate shout-out here!
I am sharing this post via FB & Twitter!
Kelly”

From John Zehr

“Great blog. Your commitment to service is evident. My first-born just left for college. I wish I’d read more books and blogs like yours before he left.”

From Sye Wells

“Lee, I love this post (as always, it’s my joy to read your content and share it) . I love how you carved time out to write in your gratitude journal. What if everyone had one? This is an powerful intentional choice and action, to decide to not just think about what we are grateful for, but to write it down and actually share it.

I have made it a part of my daily action plan, to write down and share with someone.. what I am grateful .. “right now”. Hey I think you are on to something… product.. “the Gratitude Journal”. xo Life is great! Sye-“

From Tracy Rissik

“Thanks for this thought-provoking article, Lee.

Hmmm…
Question Number One: What one small thing — anything – is (or could be if repeated over time) is holding me back from being my best today?
==> not taking proper breaks, so I get more tired more quickly

Question Number Two: What “something” — one small something — is hindering me in just one area of my life today?
==> not filing things!!!
(that one really resonated!)

Thanks!
Tracey”

Several Of My Lessons/My Responses

Good night! Can you see why I loved reading back through the responses over the past month?

Responding/Learning/Growing I Would Say…

• Check out the Heart Responses. Wow. What makes a great comment on a blog? Answer: one from the heart.
• Complimentary. In their own unique manner they were complimentary. Sincere, appreciative comments. What makes a great comment on a blog? Paying sincere compliments. Not trumped up. Sincere.
• Genuine Interaction. People thinking, responding, taking action, etc. What makes a great comment on a blog? Thoughtful interaction.
• Saying Who You Are in your business and in life. What makes a great comment on a blog? Sharing in such a way so that people want to visit your link, see what you are doing, or enter into dialogue with you.
• Sharing A Story from your life or from the life of someone you know, love, appreciate, etc. What makes a great comment on a blog? Answer: story telling!
• Sharing Good Ideas And Content. What makes a great comment on a blog? Think about it. Someone could read through just the comment I shared — let along the others that are there — and receive good tips, ideas, examples and advice on how to live better! So the answer is: short, well said comments that impart information, reveal skill sets or encourage others.

Time To Visit Your Heart

I have shared with you several ideas above relative to my reflections/lessons learned from reading over my commenters’ thoughts. Now what about you? I sincerely hope you took my advice and the ideas are flowing.

• What did you quickly catch? I mean, what immediately caught your attention as you read through the sample comments?
• What inspired you?
• What encouraged you?
• If I were to ask you: “Now, quick, give me your top 3 to 5 ideas gained or lessons learned about making significant comments on a blog” how would you respond?”

My Sincere Thanks!

Once again, I am very grateful for all the folks who stop have stopped by, shared and left a small part of themselves here on my site.

I’ve tried to learn myself about how to become a better blogger and how to become better at making quality comments on the blogs of other people by reading through all of the comments that have been left.

My Thanks also goes out to the following commenters in the month of August (in no particular order): Christina Leo, Heather Bestel, Jim Campbell, Evelyn Roberts Brooks, Larry Pollock, Martha Giffen, Stephanie Tanner, Marueen Wielansky, Kareem Williams, TeamCurtis Family, Judy H. Wright, David, Sheila Atwood, and Ligia.

A Brief Quote For Your Consideration

On Beauty Of Gratefulness

In the reality of being grateful

lies the beauty of not only seeing as we should

but in becoming the persons we should in the process.
© Lee Wise

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Attraction Marketing Excellence

7 Days Of Personal Growth Ideas

7 Days Of Ideas Personal Growth Ideas: A Summary Of The Past Week (August 14-20)

Suggestions for getting the most out of this brief review.

• Take a quick — but not too quick — read of the post titles.
• And, be sure to take in several of the comments that have been highlighted.
• Develop a beginning list for your own business and self development growth plans of action for the next week or month.
• Create Idea File for those “Not yet but I sure would like to get back to that idea and not forget it” types of thoughts.
• Read with “Influence Eyes” in terms of sharing good material with others.
• Think about “One good thought for one good purpose” as you review the titles, record your thought and act. And, by the way, do any good title of your own come to mind that you could use in any way?

Last Week’s Summary

“Three Life-Affirming, Life-Directing Questions“

• Simple, straight forward questions to help anyone as they evaluate the various “moves” of their lives.
• One comment read: “Lee, there are many wonderful value statements to live by, thank you for sharing yours and suggesting these to our value statements.”
• Click here.

“Be A Champion Quitter!“

• At times the best action to take is simply quit and stop what we may be doing.  See what I am talking about in this brief post.
• One person said: “This post reminded me of something I quit lately that has change my life…” Read why that comment was made when you arrive at the post!
• Click here.

“Common Insights On Climbing The Success Ladder”

• A guest post you will thoroughly enjoy — especially if you like taking in personal stories as powerful examples of what you are communicating.
• One reader commented: “Natasha tells a compelling story about Leadership and what Leadership represents.”
• Click here.

“Attraction Marketing Excellence: A Facebook Syndication Example”

• The topic of “syndication” and “building your tribe” can be seen all over today. This post highlights someone who took created their own Facebook syndication process with rewarding results.
• Click here.

“The Power Of Affirmation In Business And Life“

• Everyone needs encouragement, and you will be prompted to think through some specific ways to give that encouragement through affirming the worth of others in your own unique manner.
• Question: who and how might you affirm someone this week?  Get ideas by reading the post!
• Click here.

“Tweeting For Influence. Tweeting For Excellence.”

• And speaking of Tweets, I just saw that this particular post had 18 Tweets.  Super.  Love to see that!
• I enjoy reading encouraging comments like this one from that post: “I appreciate the fact that you actually take time to consider your heart and consistently seek to add value to others.” Why not stop by and see why that particular comment was made?
• Click here.

“Using The Power Of Five To Enhance Your Life”

• Short, idea prompting post to enhance your productivity.  Easy to implement.
• One commenter stated: ’Simple’ and easy to follow tips. Thanks for sharing and prompting action.”
• Click here.

Okay, That’s It!

• You may have found yourself getting several ideas for self growth simply by reading through the lists.  Why not stop to capture one or two if you can right now?
• Listening to the initial rhythms of your own heart, what could you be hearing anything just by reviewing the thoughts above?

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© You may freely distribute this inspirational review. Please include this resource box. I do thank you!

Lee is a writer an online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers herehttp://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

Interested in exploring the possibility of working with Lee as a coach? Go here to check out his FREE 15 minute session and learn more. http://marketingmerge.com/coaching

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Today I am sharing with you a guest post from Natasha Nassar.  Recently she engaged her readers regarding some personal thoughts on the topic of being a successful business person.  In her article entitled Climbing The Ladder Of Success, Natasha’s story woven in with her insights made for some great reading in my mind.

Before Your Read…

• Settle down.
• Relax.
• Take in the story involved.
• And see how you could help yourself or others who may find themselves somewhere on the playing fields of their own business adventures.

Here ya go…

Climbing The Ladder Of Success
by Natasha Nassar

Where are you situated on the ladder of success?

Are you jumping from the bottom rung of one ladder to the bottom rung of another ladder, or are you climbing up?

Mr. Glankler And The Success Ladder

A close friend of my family, and the co-founder of one of the oldest and largest law firms in Memphis passed away a few years ago. He was one of the most well-respected individuals in all of Memphis, and I would venture to say in Tennessee. He was a “great” man, a term I reserve for people who dedicate their lives to making a difference in the lives of others and living their lives in an honorable way.

I learned so much from Mr. Glankler over the years, and a lot of it came in the form of mottos. One in particular, on the topic of success, is so powerful that I just had to share it with you. He said:

“The ladder of success

is only crowded at the bottom, so keep climbing, but with honor”

When you think about it, everyone who joins a business does so with the intention of succeeding. When they do so, they are at the bottom of the success ladder.

The statistics don’t lie. The vast majority will stay at the bottom of the ladder, while only a small percentage will climb up to the top of the ladder and attain “success”.

For the most part, the difference in the person at the top and the person at the bottom isn’t that one is a “super recruiter” while the others are simply doomed to fail. Not all “successful” people are 100% extroverts blessed with the gift of selling.

So, what makes the difference in success and failure?

They Don’t Quit

As the old saying goes, “Successful people do what unsuccessful people are unwilling to do”.

The successful people don’t quit. No matter what is thrown their way, they continue to climb the ladder.

The “rest” crowding the bottom of the ladder CHOOSE to be there.

• They make the choice to remain at the bottom every time they choose to watch TV over attending a training seminar or reading a book to improve their business.
• They make a choice to remain at the bottom every time they read a great training book, and then choose to leave it at that: instead of taking the action steps recommended in the book.
• They make that choice when they decide to spend their valuable time researching whether or not their company is doomed for failure instead of spending their time building their business.
• They make the choice to stay at the bottom when they choose to quit at the first sign of adversity.

Sadly, those who hop from business to business THINK they are hopping “up” the ladder, when in fact, they are hopping from the bottom rung of one ladder to the bottom rung of another.

They Grow In Honor

Another important aspect of Mr. Glankler’s motto is moving up the ladder with honor.

Mr. Glankler was a true man of honor. He was wounded on the island of Peleliu fighting for our country at the age of 17. He was awarded the Purple Heart for his valor. He was a brilliant trial-lawyer who dedicated his life to helping those who couldn’t defend themselves. Even after he retired in 2004 at the age of 78, he kept a watchful eye on justice by parading the banner of injustice in regard to predatory lending. He helped to pass the Predatory Lending Bill in Tennessee.

In everything he did, Mr. Glankler conducted himself honorably. This is what made him a great man.

That’s why it’s of the utmost importance to me (and hopefully to you) to grow your business in an honorable way.

• Don’t hype the opportunity to prospects,
• Don’t fudge the time and effort it takes to succeed in this business,
• Don’t exaggerate income potential.
• Don’t value the power of the buck over the well-being of another individual.

If you know someone is in a desperate financial situation, I wouldn’t go for the sale if you know they don’t have the ability for whatever reason, to do what it takes to succeed…unless you let them know on the front end that it takes time and effort to get the money rolling in.  I would (and I have) told them to get a job first if possible.

Help steer them in the direction of an opportunity to perhaps start for free, and then purchase the “deluxe package” once they have generated enough money.

And most of all, if you know the business isn’t a right fit, don’t be afraid to say “no” to the prospect. At the end of the day, you’ll feel better for doing the honorable thing.

The Moral Of My Story

The moral of the story: continue to do the daily tasks necessary to build your business, and I’ll look forward to seeing you at the top of the ladder of success!

Want to make sure that you don’t miss out on any of my tips and latest thoughts on personal branding, attraction marketing, and all things network marketing? Sign up on form to the right! (My note: see her post for this sign up!)

To Your Success,

Natasha Nassar

Editorial Comments On Nataha’s Post

For those of us involved in network or attraction marketing, I decided to include a handful of my responses to her fine points:

• It was personal: Her observations, appreciation and applications came from within.
• The power of story was evident. We love stories!
• It was character based. High standards were lifted up.
• Sample responses were given so that the reader could use and grow both personally and professionally.

Lee is a writer an online marketer and coach. With a passion for on purpose living and making a positive impact in the world, he seeks to encourage people in their personal and professional lives. See his Inspirational Handbook for Attraction Marketers here http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com

Interested in exploring the possibility of working with Lee as a coach? Click here to check out his FREE 15 minute session and learn more.

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Reflect, Respond Or Reply…

• Your thoughts on carrying out our network marketing efforts with honor?
• If you were to give 5 tips to the team you were training on how to build a character based business, what would you tell them?
• Who could you use as a model of a character quality you admire and share with others?
• Did you enjoy the article?  If so, click here and share that with Natasha!

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This is a brief video introduction to my new ebook entitled…

Stay Motivated!
An Inspirational Handbook For Attraction Marketers

Stop for just a few moments to see what I have to say in the video.  But first ask yourself several questions:

• Do you find yourself finding it hard to “stay in the game” at times?
• Do you value short, doable and very hands on material to help you become all that you desire to become in your attraction marketing journey?

If so, I suggest that you listen to the video below and travel on over to http://attractionmarketinghandbook.com or clicking on the tab at the top entitled “Attraction Marketing Handbook” to read more.

And remember as well…

• Do not hesitate because you don’t happen to be an “Attraction Marketer.” Honestly, while it is written to and for those who love and appreciate attraction marketing, it can help many people.
• Do stop long enough to hear what I say if you love and appreciate the art of self development.
• And very definitely take several moments if you love and appreciate Attraction Marketing: it is written for you.

Digging Deeper

• What part does personal motivation play in your personal growth and development?
• If you had to share three top ideas with someone you were training regarding the issue of how to stay motivated, what would you tell them?
• How do you stay motivated? Care to share?

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Hi, Folks

Why the coffee mug?  Simple: rest for a moment to “relax, enjoy and take in the thoughts below.”

I just wanted to take a moment and share with what I learned following my visit to a site by Kary Rogney.  I will relate to you my spontaneous reactions to Kary and his team describing themselves and my subsequent reply (which you can see by clicking on Kary’s link that I’ve put in above) which I made after going to that page and absorbing what it said.

• No, I am NOT a team member at the time of this writing.
• No, I am NOT one of their “tribe members” at the time of this writing.
• No, that link I shared is NOT my affiliate link.

So why share?

Good question and here’s my answer: Very simply, I thought it was good stuff and a quality example — at least from my perspective.  And, for me it was one of those “heart issues.”  I simply felt that it would be a good review, did an inner check, and felt “just go ahead and share it (meaning my observations below).”  So I did.  I talk about listening to the heart and stuff like that in my book, so I try to keep learning myself in that area.

The Post And My “Lessons Learned.”

Kary,

Personally, I think this is one of the best “presentations” I have seen in terms of demonstrating the following in my mind:

*Comfortable style in sharing

*Exemplary teamwork demonstrated in video and on page.

*Value provided (by listening closely to the overview)

*Layout and design of an “internet stopping place.”

*Use of videos in sharing concepts and content.

*What I would term a “qualified call to action.” For me that means to things: (1) If you identify us, with who we are at this point; and (2) like what you sense or “feel”… then go ahead and check further. No push, shove or you may croak in the next 30 seconds if you don’t take action now.

Nice, folks. Really nice.

Thanks for being a positive example out there in the internet world.

Your Takeaways?

• As you learn, grow and develop… what did you learn (assuming you stopped by Kary’s page).
• How can, or could, you apply some of the principles they exemplify and share in the brief time they share with you?
• Can you share and or teach anything in general from the principles that I mentioned?

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Personal Development Skills For Attraction Marketing Excellence (Part Three)

Do you relate to any of the following? (If so, this brief video could be a boost for you)

• “I am trying to pull it together with internet marketing, but I find myself running all over the place and I am a bit on the worn side of life.”
• “I running more than I would like lately and I seem to not have time to think.”
• “I just love all aspects of personal development: pretty much you name it, and I like it!”
• “I am learning — and want to learn more — about the whole subject of attraction marketing.”

Taking It All In

• “You were talking to me on that one, Lee.  I need to reflect on what you were saying and take action.” Question: what actions do you feel you should take today, tomorrow or right now?
• Regarding the topic dealt with in the video, does anyone come to mind that would be encouraged (or need) to hear it?
• Stopping long enough to listen to my heart after listening to this video, what am I hearing? Do I need to take more time to pause, reflect and consider anything?

Go Ahead And Share!

• Any positive feedback?
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Renegade Professional For Those Over Sixty — Is This For You? (A Video)

You are over sixty as I am.  In fact, I am 64.

And you are possibly thinking thoughts such as these at this part of your life journey:

• What about internet marketing — could this be for me?
• I am interested in a variety of directions I could head at my age and I would like to find a fit: after all, I enjoy continuing to learn, grow and develop.
• I am kinda worn at this whole internet marketing idea: not totally worn out, but worn.  I wonder about if something might be a good fit for me?
• I’ve heard about Renegade Professional and Renegade University, but I am just not sure about them — I wonder what they are all about.

Should thoughts or questions like the one be in your mind, then I would encourage you to take the next step and watch the video below.  It is intended to help define whether or not Renegade Professional might be a fit for you from my distinct perspective.

A Hard Sell?

Absolutely not: just simple benchmarks from my way of thinking as to whether or not Renegade Professional could be something you relate to at this stage of your life.  It is so obvious that nothing is for everyone, right?  It’s only right if it happens to be what is right for us at the time.

Yes, I am over 60.  In fact, at the time of this writing I am 64 and I am a very happy member of the Renegade Professional community.

So, review the video and you may have some interactions at the conclusion (see below)

Enjoy

Taking It All In

Simple Questions…

• What did I hear my heart saying as I listened to the video?  Should I be responding in any way — including a “No?”  (After all, it could be good, but just not the right time!)
• As I was taking everything in, did I find myself thinking, “I’ll bet ___________ would really enjoy hearing this person’s approach.”
• Thinking in terms of my own learning process — somewhat apart from the idea of whether or not Renegade Pro is for me — what did I take away with me in terms of my own pursuit of success in life?
• What was that email address Lee gave to contact him?  Answer: lee.renegadepro(at)gmail(dot)com.  (Remember, NO offers)
• Did I learn anything relative to the art of communicating on the web that could be helpful for me?

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I appreciate being able to learn things from others, and today I listened to the video below by Diyanna Alcheva about tagging on Facebook that I am sure you will gain from as well — whether that be in the area of your internet marketing strategy or simply exposing those you influence to the ideas or insights of others.

My suggestion: review the video first and then return to “take in” some of the thoughts I have recorded below by responding in one way or another to my ideas, insights or questions.

Enjoy!

What I Appreciated

1. It is short.

2. It is simple.

3. It is helpful.

4. The style was pleasant.

Concepts This Demonstrates (in my mind)

• It demonstates the power of sharing our skills.
• It demonstates the power of leveraging.

Related Questions

Could you make a short tutorial or give any level of instruction that may help others today?

Remember, the nature of the instruction does not need to be that which is making something complicated simple, it also involes sharing what is simple and doable by someone who does not know: (1) how to do what you are doing; or (2) that the simple thing you are sharing even exists for them to take advantage of.

Think of it this way…

• Make the complicated, simple: Yes, that is always helpful!
• But helping others make simple discoveries can be just as useful!

Digging A Bit Deeper

1. Reflecting on Diyanna’s video and/or my brief comments on this post, what one idea could you take with you?
2. If you are great at the art of mastering “the little things” in your chosen field of endeavor, who could you share it with for the purpose of spreading your wisdom and influence?

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An Attraction Marketing Excellence Quote: The Importance Of Purpose

You cannot be around this blog long without realizing my strong feelings revolving around the subject of on purpose living.  Not that I have that subject nailed down by a long shot, but I honestly do work at trying to make my life count as best as I possibly can.

I trust that the short quote below will be a small motivation in your world to keep refining what you would like to do and why you would like to do it.

Drilling A Bit Deeper

• Should you be in a business setting where you have a significant say in what goes on in your area(s) of responsibility, have you defined your purpose as much as you would like or feel you need to do?
• In the area of attraction marketing, much talk revolves around creating a marketing funnel — which, in effect in my opinion, centers around a defining a specific purpose for an email series, home page, or sales page, etc.  Are you moving in the right direction with regards to your purpose in this area?
• Do you feel creating a mission statement for business or your personal life might be helpful at this time?
• Should you decide to create a statement, what values would you identify that would give meaning to the statement you might create?  Could you list the top five?

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